FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

Can you connect with the loved one I am hoping to hear from?
Please keep an open mind as to who can come through in your reading. Trust that the most relevant spirit with the most relevant messages for you at this particular time in your life will come through. I cannot guarantee a particular spirit will make an appearance, although they usually do. If you are thinking of them, it is sort of like a telephone to the Spirit World. Understand that sometimes we are not ready to hear their message, so they will not step forward. Spirits that come through can be family members (whether you knew them well, barely knew them, or didn't know them at all), friends, a co-worker, a neighbor, or pets. All of their messages are equally important for you at that particular time.  
Do you predict the future?
It is not uncommon for your Spirit Guides to give you advice on upcoming events in your life. The important thing to remember is that you always have free will to follow that advice or not. Also, time is linear and things can change on a dime, which would change the relevance or accuracy of the message. In addition, some messages may come to light in a day and others it may take a year for it to make sense. 
Can I ask questions?
Absolutely! I encourage you to write down a list of questions before the reading. Questions can be about the spirit itself or about your own life. Many clients book regular readings for guidance in their life. Spirit has a birds-eye view of what is going on and can offer solid advice on things like a job situation or possible household moves. It is guidance only and free will is always involved: you don't have to take the guidance. Some questions won't be answered because some things we are not meant to know or it simply isn't time for us to know yet.
How do Spirits appear to you and do you get names?
Most people want a name of the spirit stepping forward. Although this does happen sometimes, it is like a gold nugget and happens only occasionally. I receive information, I don't retrieve it.  But rest assured that spirits will give identifying information for you to know who they are. They may show a hobby. Some give me a feeling in my body of a condition they had or how they passed. Sometimes I hear a spirit say something relevant or give me a relevant date. Often they will show me relevant physical traits, personality, or profession. Spirits and messages can also appear in my spirit drawings during a reading. Spirit drawings can be a person, pet, place, or symbol. Please do not show up to a reading expecting a spirit to give you a name, birthdate, social security number, or childhood nickname. Spirits identify themselves in their own unique way, so keep an open mind.
Do you see, hear or feel Spirits all the time?
The short answer is no. It would be unethical for me to "reach" for or communicate with your loved ones without your permission. That being said, occasionally a spirit will "pop in" uninvited. It happens mostly with close friends.  

Do animals, babies, or people who did not speak English communicate?
Spirit language is universal. Yes, animals, babies (including miscarriages), and people who did not speak English can and do communicate with me. 
What if I did not know a spirit that shows up?
Your great-great-grandmother may come through in a reading or an in-law and you didn't know either of them. Understand that they know who you are and are connected to you through a common thread of energy. Even if you didn't know them on the earth plane, they have an important message to share. Perhaps they had a similar life experience.

Will you tell me when I'm going to die?
Absolutely not. It is not my place to deliver any messages of death, even if you ask. Free will and the law of attraction are too great to put any ideas of death or illness into your head. Anything can change at any given time, so this is simply not a message that I will deliver. 
Will you tell me something negative? Will negative or evil Spirits come into my reading?
You don't have to worry about anything but love and light coming to your reading, as I practice extensive spiritual protection before my readings. Most people are quite nervous if they've never had a reading before; it is quite normal to be nervous about something unknown. Rest assured that all Spirits and messages delivered by me are of the highest light and love. Spirit is here only to assist you and sometimes the message may not be what you want to hear. If you buy a self-help book, would you get upset at some of the guidance you know is meant for you? No, you would not. The same goes for Spirit; their guidance is delivered with the utmost love and light for you.
Do you get all my secrets, information, and everything about my life?
No, I do not get information on all your "stuff." Spirit only communicates what is relevant for you at the time. More often than not, I don't understand what the messages are about. It is meant for you to understand, not me. They will give me the information in such a way that you will understand exactly what they are talking about and I will not. For example, a dog came through in a tuxedo and I have no idea why I was seeing this. The owner of the dog understood which dog it was because her dog had black and white markings like a tuxedo. 
Can I include another person in my reading?
No. I discourage multiple people in a reading for several reasons. Another person's energy can interfere with the accuracy of the information coming in, and things can get mixed up with someone else's loved one. In addition, some information that may come through is very private and is meant for your ears only.
​How do phone readings work?
​Since there is no such thing as time or space in the Spirit World, it doesn't matter whether the reading or animal communication is in person or 1,000 miles away. Spirits and animals communicate by telepathy in the form of thoughts and feelings. Likewise, people who cannot speak for themselves communicate this way; Alzheimer's, dementia, coma, or disability are not barriers for spirit or telepathic communication. And since there is no time in the Spirit World it does not matter whether they passed a month ago or twenty years ago.